I'm single, not looking for a real thing but feeling out my options and now I'm confused as to what I want... i think it's just sex. so for my birthday... which is wednesday OCTOBER 6 BABY!! I don't think I've decided on what I wanna do... I could go party it up around ventura with my buddies but what if it turns out that that specific weekend no one wants to have a party? I could do a bonfire? Naw. Hotel party... that would be fun but what if the wrong people show up, I would rent two rooms 300 bucks my girls/guys would supply the drinks/the bud and we can light candles and dance naked or not dance or watch movies or play guitar... Or my best friend and I could get stoned... she could get drunk... her drug of choice (I don't know why) and we can kick back, watch movies and eat cake. CANDLES. HOT WAX. HOT SEX.