all i can tell u is tell her that it's really bothering u and that u don't like what she is doing. if she changes then u can be happy but if she doesn't then just tell her that she needs to stop keeping things from you. if things don't change then come back.
it made it worse.but...not b/c of your advise. mainly because i found out that they were about me.i just wish that she would say it to my face..
..when i confronted her she deleted them so i never got to read them but later on i asked her if they were about me and she said yes after she stayed quite for about 2 mins
..and she is also angry that i am asking you for advise..lol i think that it is really funny! thanks4 the advise i'll b back mayb