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Word of the Day: mythomania I want to thank you all for your kind comments and concern. Sorry I worried you all so much. JD told me two things which quite devastated me. I won't go into detail, but he did say he was unhappy and had been for a while. I really thought it was the end, my head was moving at astronomical speeds. I was asking for answers when I knew I shouldn't have, and I think we both overreacted. Needless to say, I don't know if things are all right or not because I still need to say some things to him to make things clear. I did tell him, however, that I wasn't going to let him run away when things got hard. I know he did that in the past with things, but I told him when we first got together and I told him again Friday night that I was not going to let him give up. I promised him that. I know we've both got communication problems and we're both a little selfish, but those are things that can be worked on, right? People can change, can't they?
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[Anonymous]

people can change, especially in relationships. if you both have your hearts in it and want it to work, it will. i hope youre feeling okay. keep us posted.

you wait too long to update. im getting an ulcer here.


-sarah

[Anonymous]

awww i'm so sorry ash. people can change, and if you and jd both want to make things better, i think you will be able to. it might be hard work, but what marriage isn't? i wish you both the best of luck, i hope things get better! i'll be praying for you guys.

Hang in there, Ash....

I will say this. People CAN change, but only if they are willing to.

No one can make them do it.

Be strong.

big hug


I'm just checking back into sitD and low-and-behold, I'm back at your diary. (I'm just gonna add you as a friend. XD)

I'm sorry to hear about that. :(

Did you try tell him he will never recieve sex from you ever again if he leaves? That'll motivate him.

I'm a horrible person, I'm sorry for that. I'll be praying for you guys. =)


I definitely believe people can change if they want to work at it. Problem is, a lot of people I've run into aren't the type who stick with it. It's so much easier to run, and I hope he will stay and work through it for his family. I love you guys, and I hope the best for you all no matter what.